i found this site www.wikihow.com that really useful?haha:)
*Steps
Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you, do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.
*Tips
It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them be free. It is selfish to blame them for your feelings.
There are many types of love, for example: a mother-son love is different from a best friend's love, which is different from a romantic love. Don't be ashamed to tell anyone that you love your friends as much as you love anyone else in your life.
You have to find someone that will suit you, someone you feel comfortable with - not just someone to make love to.
As a word, love can be found worldwide and is often used to describe compassion and/or emotional attachment. Accepting those you love for who they are is part of love. You also need to learn to accept yourself before you can accept another. If you cannot love your self, how are you to love another?
Love genuinely. Do not compare your feelings now to what your feelings were when you were with another mate. At times, we can experience rejection.
Realize that love is a feeling that wikiHow can describe and attempt to assist, but ultimately, you are the one who must take action in order to discover love.
Do things that make the other person feel good, but do not smother them with gifts and attention.
Consider some tips about what people in love do.
People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavour to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it.
Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfilment in life.
*Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness.
People who are truly in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them.
People who are truly in love are considerate of each others feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores.
People who are truly in love look out for their mates' best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well.
People who are truly in love control their anger when the other displeases them. We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways when we counting on someone else to meet our needs.
People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mates' disappointments or failures.
People who truly love each other treat their mates with absolute trust. Some husbands and wives torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble you will find it every time.
People who truly love look forward to their relationship growing more meaningful and precious. They have hope. Which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. It isn't being blind and denies there are problems, but it does look beyond the problems. People who truly love each other do not allow their problems to rob them of their happiness.
*Warnings
You must love yourself before you can love another.
There is always the risk of getting hurt, but that's part of letting yourself fully love and trust some one. Being hurt could be long-lasting and could hurt more than anything in the world.
Realize what you have while you have it, and care for the person you trust.
If something comes to an end, try to let go rather than holding on; it's for the best.
The idea of love is fueled by childhood fantasies. The love shown in movies, as obtainable as it may be, is rare to say the least.
You just may find your soul-mate sooner than you want to.
If you feel any doubt of love your partner has for you, make sure that your suspicions are grounded in reality. If you hurt your partner as a result of undeserved mistrust, he/she may end up doubting both your love for them and theirs for you.
Don't ask for love - you should receive love because your partner wants to give you love, not because you want it from your partner.
Do not force love - it will come in good time, it will come.
Friday, February 27, 2009
How to be emo?
As I read the journal of HOlY TRINITY COLLEGE, there’s an article that caught my attention. The article entitled how to be emo?
*understand what is EMO. Like any style, fashion and culture.
The term emo is loosely associated with emotionally charged punk rock, however it originally meant emotionally hardcore. Most emos like underground or indie music.
* Test yourself. Try listening to emo music. If you end up liking this type of music, you’re probably a true emo! Try bands, such as Type Cast, Mellany, Hawthrone etc. Getting inner emo is all a matter finding out if you have it or not.
*Dress the part. After you have discovered your inner emo, try shopping for a new wardrobe. Wear skinny jeans, tight shirts with emo band logos on them, and an old pair of black worn drown Chuck Taylor Converse.
*Get an emo haircut. Dye it black with perhaps some unnatural colored streaks. For girls, you may possibly cut it long or short but keep your bangs or fringe long, swept drastically on the one side.
*Get the attitude. A lot of times, emo is associated with being bitter, depressed, insecure and resentful. But at its core, you can be emo because you’re sensitive, introspective, thoughtful, and quite. Emo stands for emotionally unstable. Don’t let people decide what you are, be your own person and decide for yourself.
*Don’t run around saying “im EMO” if you are emo, it will show, you don’t need to announce it. If people ask you, “are you emo? Then you’re on the right flow.
*last but not the least, go out and FORM A BAND!!!
But the others are not emo in the sense of attitude; they’re just Emo in sense of fashion. It’s just like that. And if you’re emo, you need to know the rules, and one of this is “MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS” I admit Im one of them.
As I read the journal of HOlY TRINITY COLLEGE, there’s an article that caught my attention. The article entitled how to be emo?
*understand what is EMO. Like any style, fashion and culture.
The term emo is loosely associated with emotionally charged punk rock, however it originally meant emotionally hardcore. Most emos like underground or indie music.
* Test yourself. Try listening to emo music. If you end up liking this type of music, you’re probably a true emo! Try bands, such as Type Cast, Mellany, Hawthrone etc. Getting inner emo is all a matter finding out if you have it or not.
*Dress the part. After you have discovered your inner emo, try shopping for a new wardrobe. Wear skinny jeans, tight shirts with emo band logos on them, and an old pair of black worn drown Chuck Taylor Converse.
*Get an emo haircut. Dye it black with perhaps some unnatural colored streaks. For girls, you may possibly cut it long or short but keep your bangs or fringe long, swept drastically on the one side.
*Get the attitude. A lot of times, emo is associated with being bitter, depressed, insecure and resentful. But at its core, you can be emo because you’re sensitive, introspective, thoughtful, and quite. Emo stands for emotionally unstable. Don’t let people decide what you are, be your own person and decide for yourself.
*Don’t run around saying “im EMO” if you are emo, it will show, you don’t need to announce it. If people ask you, “are you emo? Then you’re on the right flow.
*last but not the least, go out and FORM A BAND!!!
But the others are not emo in the sense of attitude; they’re just Emo in sense of fashion. It’s just like that. And if you’re emo, you need to know the rules, and one of this is “MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS” I admit Im one of them.
huhu:(
What’s wrong with me??
Lately I’m having a hard time sleeping. I don’t know what’s wrong with me and I’m trying to find it out!
It was really hard for me to sleep at night even though I lay on my bed early. I normally sleep at 11:00 pm but lately I’m still up until 4:00 in the morning! I don’t know what’s going on with me. I don’t know why I can’t sleep early just like last time … I’m trying my very best to do everything just to sleep early but as soon as I close my eyes, my mind starts to bug me. I think that’s the main reason why I can’t get enough sleep every night! And every morning when I wake up, I look so haggard and have an eye bags! So unbelievable! And also because of lack of sleep, I’ll start my day with a frown face. As if I’m always having a PMS everyday….tsk.. tsk.. What a bad day!!!
Lately I’m having a hard time sleeping. I don’t know what’s wrong with me and I’m trying to find it out!
It was really hard for me to sleep at night even though I lay on my bed early. I normally sleep at 11:00 pm but lately I’m still up until 4:00 in the morning! I don’t know what’s going on with me. I don’t know why I can’t sleep early just like last time … I’m trying my very best to do everything just to sleep early but as soon as I close my eyes, my mind starts to bug me. I think that’s the main reason why I can’t get enough sleep every night! And every morning when I wake up, I look so haggard and have an eye bags! So unbelievable! And also because of lack of sleep, I’ll start my day with a frown face. As if I’m always having a PMS everyday….tsk.. tsk.. What a bad day!!!
When can you say that you already through him?
For us girls, it’s really hard to get over with the pain; it’s so hard for us to accept that they’ll never come back to us. And it’s really over.
But, when can you finally say that you already moved on
That you’re not in his shadow anymore?
And that there is nothing more about him that will make you cry or mourn?
Well, I do believe that pain will make you stronger and braver,
If you know how to make this as your armor to face the future!
For me, I think the better way to do is to accept the fact that he’s already gone!
Don’t do some crazy and stupid things just to win him back
Such as getting mad at him for replacing you so easily,
Making arguments to the girl who replaces you to his life,
Or making some rumors that will destroy both of them and their relationship!
It’s really a bad idea because it will just make you look stupid and pitiful!
When he found someone new…
And you can see that he’s happy and he will be better with her…
Let them be!
It’s not your business anymore…
Just live your life with happiness and contentment…
If you look at yourself that you’re beautiful and it’s not you’re lost,
good for you…
Just think that there’s a better man along the way for you…
You’ll gonna be a happier person…
Just show them that you don’t need him…
And You can be happy without him…
Life is like that…
When someone leaves you..
Expect that there is someone who will come and make you happy…
Again!
Don’t make yourself stupid about this!
He’s just a guy…
Don’t waste your time blaming them…
Life must go on…
Wait for the right time…
Wait for the right guy!
For us girls, it’s really hard to get over with the pain; it’s so hard for us to accept that they’ll never come back to us. And it’s really over.
But, when can you finally say that you already moved on
That you’re not in his shadow anymore?
And that there is nothing more about him that will make you cry or mourn?
Well, I do believe that pain will make you stronger and braver,
If you know how to make this as your armor to face the future!
For me, I think the better way to do is to accept the fact that he’s already gone!
Don’t do some crazy and stupid things just to win him back
Such as getting mad at him for replacing you so easily,
Making arguments to the girl who replaces you to his life,
Or making some rumors that will destroy both of them and their relationship!
It’s really a bad idea because it will just make you look stupid and pitiful!
When he found someone new…
And you can see that he’s happy and he will be better with her…
Let them be!
It’s not your business anymore…
Just live your life with happiness and contentment…
If you look at yourself that you’re beautiful and it’s not you’re lost,
good for you…
Just think that there’s a better man along the way for you…
You’ll gonna be a happier person…
Just show them that you don’t need him…
And You can be happy without him…
Life is like that…
When someone leaves you..
Expect that there is someone who will come and make you happy…
Again!
Don’t make yourself stupid about this!
He’s just a guy…
Don’t waste your time blaming them…
Life must go on…
Wait for the right time…
Wait for the right guy!
THE HATE LETTER
I was amazed by the author of this hate letter, as I read this article, I felt the “kilig”factor inside of me… and I want it to share with you guys.
1.The great love that I have for you
2. is gone, and I find my self dislike for you
3.grows everyday. When I see you,
4.I do not even like your face;
5.the one thing that I want to do is to
6.look at other girls. I never wanted to
7.marry you. Our last conversation
8.was very boring and has not
9.made me look forward to seeing you again.
10.you think only yourself.
11.if we were married, I know what I would find
12.life very difficult, and I would have no
13.pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
14.to give, but it is not something that
15.I want to give to you. No one is more
16.foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
17.able to care for me and help me.
18.I sincerely want you to understand that
19.I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
20.if you think this is the end. Do not try
21.to answer this. Your letters are full of
22.things that do not interest me. You have no
23.true love for me. Good-bye! Believe me,
24.I do not care for you. Please do not think that
25.I am still your boyfriend.
He knows that the girl’s father will definitely read this letter… so he decided to write it in odd numbers. Before handing over the letter to the girl, the boy told the girl that read between the lines.
I was amazed by the author of this hate letter, as I read this article, I felt the “kilig”factor inside of me… and I want it to share with you guys.
1.The great love that I have for you
2. is gone, and I find my self dislike for you
3.grows everyday. When I see you,
4.I do not even like your face;
5.the one thing that I want to do is to
6.look at other girls. I never wanted to
7.marry you. Our last conversation
8.was very boring and has not
9.made me look forward to seeing you again.
10.you think only yourself.
11.if we were married, I know what I would find
12.life very difficult, and I would have no
13.pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
14.to give, but it is not something that
15.I want to give to you. No one is more
16.foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
17.able to care for me and help me.
18.I sincerely want you to understand that
19.I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
20.if you think this is the end. Do not try
21.to answer this. Your letters are full of
22.things that do not interest me. You have no
23.true love for me. Good-bye! Believe me,
24.I do not care for you. Please do not think that
25.I am still your boyfriend.
He knows that the girl’s father will definitely read this letter… so he decided to write it in odd numbers. Before handing over the letter to the girl, the boy told the girl that read between the lines.
EMOTIONAL
I found this POEM at HTC journal. It’s really nice! I really love it.
From my darker days, you came with a light.
Clearing everything…
it seems to me in death…
I was lost…
Hopeless, somebody could make me happy.
From a wishful face into a glee…
I’m tired of being enthusiast…
After a shatter, I’m too broken…
You see me with honesty and it doesn’t fade…
Silence took me apart from you…
You’re telling me with a toss reason for so loving you…
Nitwit am I? Melodramatic actions taken me to collide off.
Apathetic heart since fall into pieces…
And now it gets me this…
Useless graver are digging to see me in my coffin,
With seven roses in midnight
Fears crashing to emotional side
Blood screaming wistful smiles, dreary…
I’m all alone drowning in silence…
Death in quite tears falling…
I’m getting tired of being Emotional.
By: tosh
I found this POEM at HTC journal. It’s really nice! I really love it.
From my darker days, you came with a light.
Clearing everything…
it seems to me in death…
I was lost…
Hopeless, somebody could make me happy.
From a wishful face into a glee…
I’m tired of being enthusiast…
After a shatter, I’m too broken…
You see me with honesty and it doesn’t fade…
Silence took me apart from you…
You’re telling me with a toss reason for so loving you…
Nitwit am I? Melodramatic actions taken me to collide off.
Apathetic heart since fall into pieces…
And now it gets me this…
Useless graver are digging to see me in my coffin,
With seven roses in midnight
Fears crashing to emotional side
Blood screaming wistful smiles, dreary…
I’m all alone drowning in silence…
Death in quite tears falling…
I’m getting tired of being Emotional.
By: tosh
11
THE SECRET BEHIND THE NUMBER 11
The New York City has 11 letters.
Afghanistan has 11 letters
Ramsin Yuseb has 11 letters ( the terrorist who threatened to destroy the Twin Towers in 1993)
George W. Bush has 11 letters (this could be a mere coincidence, but this gets interesting.)
New York is the 11th state
The first plane crashing against the Twin Towers was flight number 11
Flight 77 whih also hit Twin Towers, was carrying 65 passengers. 6+5+11
The tragedy was on September 11, or 9/11 as it is now known. 9+1+1=11
The date is equal to the US emergency services telephone number 911. 9+1+1=11
Sheer coincidence? Read on and make up your own mind:
The total number of victims inside all hi-jacked planes was 254. 2+5+4=11
September 11 is the day number 254 of the calendar year. Again 2+5+4=11
The Madrid bombing took place on 3/11/2004. 3+1+1+2+4=11
The tragedy of Madrid happened 911 days after the Twin Towers incident. Now this is where things get totally eerie;
The most recognized symbol for the US, after the stars and stripes, is the Eagle. The following verse is taken from the Koran, the Islamic holy book: “for it is written that a son of Arabia would awaken a fearsome Eagle. The wrath of the Eagle would be felt throughout the lands of Allah while some of the people trembled in despair still more rejoiced: for the wrath of the Eagle cleansed the lands of Allah and there was peace”. That verse is number 9.11 of the Koran. Unconvinced about this entire still?
Try this and see how you feel afterwards
Open Microsoft Word and do the following:
Type in capitals Q33 NY. This is the flight number of the first plane to hit one of the Twin Towers.
Highlight the Q33 NY
Change the font size to 48
Change the actual font to the Wingdings 1
What do you think now?
by: HTC journal
The New York City has 11 letters.
Afghanistan has 11 letters
Ramsin Yuseb has 11 letters ( the terrorist who threatened to destroy the Twin Towers in 1993)
George W. Bush has 11 letters (this could be a mere coincidence, but this gets interesting.)
New York is the 11th state
The first plane crashing against the Twin Towers was flight number 11
Flight 77 whih also hit Twin Towers, was carrying 65 passengers. 6+5+11
The tragedy was on September 11, or 9/11 as it is now known. 9+1+1=11
The date is equal to the US emergency services telephone number 911. 9+1+1=11
Sheer coincidence? Read on and make up your own mind:
The total number of victims inside all hi-jacked planes was 254. 2+5+4=11
September 11 is the day number 254 of the calendar year. Again 2+5+4=11
The Madrid bombing took place on 3/11/2004. 3+1+1+2+4=11
The tragedy of Madrid happened 911 days after the Twin Towers incident. Now this is where things get totally eerie;
The most recognized symbol for the US, after the stars and stripes, is the Eagle. The following verse is taken from the Koran, the Islamic holy book: “for it is written that a son of Arabia would awaken a fearsome Eagle. The wrath of the Eagle would be felt throughout the lands of Allah while some of the people trembled in despair still more rejoiced: for the wrath of the Eagle cleansed the lands of Allah and there was peace”. That verse is number 9.11 of the Koran. Unconvinced about this entire still?
Try this and see how you feel afterwards
Open Microsoft Word and do the following:
Type in capitals Q33 NY. This is the flight number of the first plane to hit one of the Twin Towers.
Highlight the Q33 NY
Change the font size to 48
Change the actual font to the Wingdings 1
What do you think now?
by: HTC journal
pssst... are u aware?
Are you aware that you’re really hurting me?
Believe me, I tried to stop this,I’ve tried so many times to accept the fact that you’ll never come back
And the promises that you’ve made will never come true!
Everytime I see you, my heart beats faster,
I can’t look at you,
Nor say hi to you..
Everything have changed,
We’re not like before,
Now, it seems like we don’t know each other anymore,
And the friendship that we’ve built together is there no more!
Don’t know if I can talk to you the way we talked before
Don’t know if we can do foolishness again the way we fooled others and all
And don’t know if I can laugh with you the way we laughed so full!
The whole thing has changed!
You and I have commitment no more!
Sometimes, I regret the day that you and I became best of friends!
If I can go back to the moment that I get to know you,
I won’t allow myself to fall!
I must be happier if we just stay good friends,
At least I will not hurt myself or regret all these
But believe me,
Im happy for you
Cuz you finally found your sanctuary
You’ve finally found the one that will make you happy!
I just wish, someday when you need someone to talk to,
And someone’s shoulder to lean on,
I wish that someone could be ME!
Cuz im willing to be you’re
Handkerchief!
Believe me, I tried to stop this,I’ve tried so many times to accept the fact that you’ll never come back
And the promises that you’ve made will never come true!
Everytime I see you, my heart beats faster,
I can’t look at you,
Nor say hi to you..
Everything have changed,
We’re not like before,
Now, it seems like we don’t know each other anymore,
And the friendship that we’ve built together is there no more!
Don’t know if I can talk to you the way we talked before
Don’t know if we can do foolishness again the way we fooled others and all
And don’t know if I can laugh with you the way we laughed so full!
The whole thing has changed!
You and I have commitment no more!
Sometimes, I regret the day that you and I became best of friends!
If I can go back to the moment that I get to know you,
I won’t allow myself to fall!
I must be happier if we just stay good friends,
At least I will not hurt myself or regret all these
But believe me,
Im happy for you
Cuz you finally found your sanctuary
You’ve finally found the one that will make you happy!
I just wish, someday when you need someone to talk to,
And someone’s shoulder to lean on,
I wish that someone could be ME!
Cuz im willing to be you’re
Handkerchief!
10 Secrets:)
10 Secrets Beautiful Girls know
By: CandyMag
Beautiful girls smile. The quickest way to give yourself a beautiful boost?
A simple flasah of your pearly whites! Your eyes light up, and your cheeks glow. It seems to easy to look absolutely radiant, but try it you’ll see and feel the results right away. Break the ice, close the gap, win a friend-smile.
2. Beautiful girls love their bodies. Crash diets? Late night TV session? Self-bashing in the mirror? It’s time to show your body the respect it deserves with a balanced diet
and a healthy outlook. Instead of throwing nasty remarks at yourself, start telling yourself what a great body you have! Learn to appreciate your body instead of despise it! Kick your bad habits, and stick to a healthy lifestyle.
3.Beautiful girls flaunt what they have. Beautiful girls know their best assets and ate proud of them. Whether its pair of long legs, an awesome singing voice, or a knack of crackling jokes, they’re not afraid to let people see them at their best. Be proud of what you have and what you can do! Shoe the world what you’re made of. When you’re looking your best, you’ll dazzle people with your confidence.
4. Beautiful are prepared for any emergency. How do some girls squirm out of a dilemma and still remain gorgeous? Easy, they’re prepared! Instead of panicking, they calmly dig up their secrets tricks to solve their problems. A big, red zit on the morning of you big date? All it needs is a warm compress and concealer. Caught in the middle of a fight between best buds? A cup of coffee and a heart-to-heart talk with them will do wonders. By thinking rationally and evenly, you’ll keep your cool and look that way too.
5. Beautiful girls walk tall. When you want to talk the walk, all you have to do is throw your shoulders back and stand tall. Your good posture will make all the difference when you’re in a crowd. You’ll stand out among the rest of the people slouching and shuffling their way through. You’ll look taller, thinner, more confident.
6. Beautiful girls aren’t damsels in distress. Pretending to lose your dog in the park to get the boy to notice you isn’t cool. Neither is coyly asking him to teach you basketball when you actually good at it. Stop fooling him and yourself! Don’t sacrifice your capabilities just to get some guy’s attention. Guys are impressed when you prove you’re capable of many things. Show what a computer whiz you are. Politely refuse when the bag he offers to carry for you isn’t too heavy. Let your feminine strength shine through, and you’ll take his breath away.
7. Beautiful girls have secret weapons of their choice. There’s nothing like a booty boost to brighten a girl’s day. Whether your hair just won’t curl right, or school’s stressing you out, you need the secret weapon to perk you up. All you have to do is find it. Do you feel prettier when you wear lip gloss? Do people admire your hair when you let it down? Discover your weapon, and use it whenever you like! Not only will you look great but you’ll feel pretty good too.
8. Beautiful girls know their beautiful boost. Beautiful girls don’t slap sweet-smelling cream on their faces because they liked its packaging or it promised to remove their pimples. They consult dermatologist, their mothers, friends, and magazines to see if the product will work for them. They understand words like benzoy! Peroxide and alpha hydroxy acids because of their research. Don’t waste your money on products that won’t do you any good. Get to know the ones that are effective, and stick to them.
9. Beautiful girls dare to be different. There’s just something so beautiful about girls who stand out! Thanks to their imagination, creativity, and guts. The best trends start from the one innovative person who isn’t afraid to experiment. Don’t be afraid to go against the crowd. Mix colors, add vintage pieces to your wardrobe, have fun!
10. Beautiful girls accept compliments. Next time someone pays you a compliments, respond with a sincere “thank you”! accepting compliments isn’t a sign of arrogance. When you refuse to believe people’s praises, your insecurities reveal themselves. Charm people with your confidence and graciousness. Thank them for their kind words.
This are the 10 secrets beautiful girls know. I’ve found this at candymag.com. when I read the article, there’s one thing pops into my mind, that despite of all the tips, you just need to be yourself! Be true to yourself so that other people will know you as you and love you the way you are!
10 Secrets:)
10 Secrets Beautiful Girls know
By: CandyMag
Beautiful girls smile. The quickest way to give yourself a beautiful boost?
A simple flasah of your pearly whites! Your eyes light up, and your cheeks glow. It seems to easy to look absolutely radiant, but try it you’ll see and feel the results right away. Break the ice, close the gap, win a friend-smile.
2. Beautiful girls love their bodies. Crash diets? Late night TV session? Self-bashing in the mirror? It’s time to show your body the respect it deserves with a balanced diet
and a healthy outlook. Instead of throwing nasty remarks at yourself, start telling yourself what a great body you have! Learn to appreciate your body instead of despise it! Kick your bad habits, and stick to a healthy lifestyle.
3.Beautiful girls flaunt what they have. Beautiful girls know their best assets and ate proud of them. Whether its pair of long legs, an awesome singing voice, or a knack of crackling jokes, they’re not afraid to let people see them at their best. Be proud of what you have and what you can do! Shoe the world what you’re made of. When you’re looking your best, you’ll dazzle people with your confidence.
4. Beautiful are prepared for any emergency. How do some girls squirm out of a dilemma and still remain gorgeous? Easy, they’re prepared! Instead of panicking, they calmly dig up their secrets tricks to solve their problems. A big, red zit on the morning of you big date? All it needs is a warm compress and concealer. Caught in the middle of a fight between best buds? A cup of coffee and a heart-to-heart talk with them will do wonders. By thinking rationally and evenly, you’ll keep your cool and look that way too.
5. Beautiful girls walk tall. When you want to talk the walk, all you have to do is throw your shoulders back and stand tall. Your good posture will make all the difference when you’re in a crowd. You’ll stand out among the rest of the people slouching and shuffling their way through. You’ll look taller, thinner, more confident.
6. Beautiful girls aren’t damsels in distress. Pretending to lose your dog in the park to get the boy to notice you isn’t cool. Neither is coyly asking him to teach you basketball when you actually good at it. Stop fooling him and yourself! Don’t sacrifice your capabilities just to get some guy’s attention. Guys are impressed when you prove you’re capable of many things. Show what a computer whiz you are. Politely refuse when the bag he offers to carry for you isn’t too heavy. Let your feminine strength shine through, and you’ll take his breath away.
7. Beautiful girls have secret weapons of their choice. There’s nothing like a booty boost to brighten a girl’s day. Whether your hair just won’t curl right, or school’s stressing you out, you need the secret weapon to perk you up. All you have to do is find it. Do you feel prettier when you wear lip gloss? Do people admire your hair when you let it down? Discover your weapon, and use it whenever you like! Not only will you look great but you’ll feel pretty good too.
8. Beautiful girls know their beautiful boost. Beautiful girls don’t slap sweet-smelling cream on their faces because they liked its packaging or it promised to remove their pimples. They consult dermatologist, their mothers, friends, and magazines to see if the product will work for them. They understand words like benzoy! Peroxide and alpha hydroxy acids because of their research. Don’t waste your money on products that won’t do you any good. Get to know the ones that are effective, and stick to them.
9. Beautiful girls dare to be different. There’s just something so beautiful about girls who stand out! Thanks to their imagination, creativity, and guts. The best trends start from the one innovative person who isn’t afraid to experiment. Don’t be afraid to go against the crowd. Mix colors, add vintage pieces to your wardrobe, have fun!
10. Beautiful girls accept compliments. Next time someone pays you a compliments, respond with a sincere “thank you”! accepting compliments isn’t a sign of arrogance. When you refuse to believe people’s praises, your insecurities reveal themselves. Charm people with your confidence and graciousness. Thank them for their kind words.
This are the 10 secrets beautiful girls know. I’ve found this at candymag.com. when I read the article, there’s one thing pops into my mind, that despite of all the tips, you just need to be yourself! Be true to yourself so that other people will know you as you and love you the way you are!
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Love affair with nature
Feb. 14,2009
Love affair with Nature
San Jose, Puerto Princesa
It was my first time attending love affair with nature.
it was a great experienced.
spending valentines by doing valuable things like this is much better than having a date!
haha:)
I'm inviting you all to participate for the next love affair with nature:)
see yah:)
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Thursday, February 5, 2009
+till i found you+
Till I found You - Freestyle
I was alone not long ago without a love to call my own
I was afraid and thought it was not meant for me
I did not need anybody else that was what I would tell myself
And I believed than that was how it would be
I used to think that I was fine, oh, that
I was doing okay
I did not know that I was blind
I just went on along my way
I did not know what I was missing
till I felt your tender lips Kissing my fears away
I’m so glad you’re here today
Chorus: I never had somebody I could lean on
I never had a shoulder I could cry on
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
And I never had somebody I would think about
I never had someone I could'nt do without
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
I had been badly hurt before
Ever since then I would ignore
any chance for love I thought it was a lie
I learned to rely upon myself
and I thought I was doing well
until you came with something I just cant deny
I used to think that I was fine
Oh that I was doing alright
I would go on and do my thing
Everyday and every night
I did not know what I was missing
till I felt your Tender love feeling me up inside
I love you with all my might
Chorus: I never had somebody I could lean on
I never had a shoulder I could cry on
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
And I never had somebody I would think about
I never had someone I could not do without
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
Repeat Chorus
And I never knew how go a love could feel..
Till I found you baby
And I never thought that love could be so real…
Till I found you..
_+hm... sometimes... when i feel that im alone because of problems... i just bring out my phone... look for this song... then Im gonna feel better! and then I remembered someone... then start thinking of him... you know what... love can make you feel better... right? that when someone make you feel special... no matter what problems you may encounter.... there's always smile in your face:) gonna ask you something... how can you define love? we'll for me, there is no such word to define love... it's just my opinion anyways... and when someone make me feel that I'm complete... then, that's love:)
I was alone not long ago without a love to call my own
I was afraid and thought it was not meant for me
I did not need anybody else that was what I would tell myself
And I believed than that was how it would be
I used to think that I was fine, oh, that
I was doing okay
I did not know that I was blind
I just went on along my way
I did not know what I was missing
till I felt your tender lips Kissing my fears away
I’m so glad you’re here today
Chorus: I never had somebody I could lean on
I never had a shoulder I could cry on
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
And I never had somebody I would think about
I never had someone I could'nt do without
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
I had been badly hurt before
Ever since then I would ignore
any chance for love I thought it was a lie
I learned to rely upon myself
and I thought I was doing well
until you came with something I just cant deny
I used to think that I was fine
Oh that I was doing alright
I would go on and do my thing
Everyday and every night
I did not know what I was missing
till I felt your Tender love feeling me up inside
I love you with all my might
Chorus: I never had somebody I could lean on
I never had a shoulder I could cry on
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
And I never had somebody I would think about
I never had someone I could not do without
till I found you baby
Till I found you…
Repeat Chorus
And I never knew how go a love could feel..
Till I found you baby
And I never thought that love could be so real…
Till I found you..
_+hm... sometimes... when i feel that im alone because of problems... i just bring out my phone... look for this song... then Im gonna feel better! and then I remembered someone... then start thinking of him... you know what... love can make you feel better... right? that when someone make you feel special... no matter what problems you may encounter.... there's always smile in your face:) gonna ask you something... how can you define love? we'll for me, there is no such word to define love... it's just my opinion anyways... and when someone make me feel that I'm complete... then, that's love:)
In Reality!
I’ve been searching for the reasons, why I’m broken…
I’ve been looking for the people who left me crying…
I just wanna walk through the rain, so they won’t see me crying..
I’ve been hiding my feelings, so they won’ hurt me again
I’ve been hurting but now it’s healing…
I’ve been lonely until you came…
My heart was close and now it’s open…
I can be your friend or maybe your girlfriend
Gonna do anything just to make you stay…
You have me at my best…
And I’m gonna show you the rest!
Gonna make you happy…
So you won’t feel lonely…
I’m just right here… just one click away!
when you need me
You know I’ll be there!
When you’re broken…
I’m gonna pick up those pieces…
And make it whole again!
In Reality!
I’ve been searching for the reasons, why I’m broken…
I’ve been looking for the people who left me crying…
I just wanna walk through the rain, so they won’t see me crying..
I’ve been hiding my feelings, so they won’ hurt me again
I’ve been hurting but now it’s healing…
I’ve been lonely until you came…
My heart was close and now it’s open…
I can be your friend or maybe your girlfriend
Gonna do anything just to make you stay…
You have me at my best…
And I’m gonna show you the rest!
Gonna make you happy…
So you won’t feel lonely…
I’m just right here… just one click away!
when you need me
You know I’ll be there!
When you’re broken…
I’m gonna pick up those pieces…
And make it whole again!
Im Captured:)
Captured
I was captured the moment we met
Carried away with every word you said
It's a mystery how you got to me
I fell in the spell of your charms
With your siren's smile you caught me off guard
Just one glance took away my breath
Then you drew me in with your tenderness
You captivate my soul, I'm enraptured
You knocked me out and you locked me up
Stole my heart like a thief at love
Keep me here in your happy ever after
I'm captured
By the way just in case you care I'm here to stay,
I'm not going anywhere
I took a dive in your deep dark eyes
And I'm never coming up for air
I lost myself in this bond that we share
One sweet kiss took away my breath
Then you drew me in with your tenderness
You captivate my soul, I'm enraptured
You knocked me out and you locked me up
Stole my heart like a thief at love
Hold me tight in your happy ever after
Now you've got the best of me
No one else could hold the key I'm captured
Just one touch took away my breath
When you drew me in I could not resist
You captivate my soul, I'm enraptured
You knocked me out and you locked me up
Stole my heart like a thief at love
Keep me here in your happy ever after
I'm captured
_+everytime i heard this song... i remembered someone... someone that I've never expect that he will be the one who will save me from my past... someone that ive never expect that become my special someone... well, like what other people say... expect the unexpected! because, ive never knew him at the first place we never talked, or even know each others name.... but, one day, ,i just woke up,with the fact that we're friends, or better if i say, more than friensds, haha:)
I was captured the moment we met
Carried away with every word you said
It's a mystery how you got to me
I fell in the spell of your charms
With your siren's smile you caught me off guard
Just one glance took away my breath
Then you drew me in with your tenderness
You captivate my soul, I'm enraptured
You knocked me out and you locked me up
Stole my heart like a thief at love
Keep me here in your happy ever after
I'm captured
By the way just in case you care I'm here to stay,
I'm not going anywhere
I took a dive in your deep dark eyes
And I'm never coming up for air
I lost myself in this bond that we share
One sweet kiss took away my breath
Then you drew me in with your tenderness
You captivate my soul, I'm enraptured
You knocked me out and you locked me up
Stole my heart like a thief at love
Hold me tight in your happy ever after
Now you've got the best of me
No one else could hold the key I'm captured
Just one touch took away my breath
When you drew me in I could not resist
You captivate my soul, I'm enraptured
You knocked me out and you locked me up
Stole my heart like a thief at love
Keep me here in your happy ever after
I'm captured
_+everytime i heard this song... i remembered someone... someone that I've never expect that he will be the one who will save me from my past... someone that ive never expect that become my special someone... well, like what other people say... expect the unexpected! because, ive never knew him at the first place we never talked, or even know each others name.... but, one day, ,i just woke up,with the fact that we're friends, or better if i say, more than friensds, haha:)
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